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Everyone disappears the park empties out in less than two minutes. Edited by Kackyīy the way, when I am in such parks doing cache maintenance on those occasions when I am in the kind of grim evil antisocial mood where I do not even want people looking at me, before I exit my car, I simply don my hardhat, safety vest, tool belt, and gloves, and carry my clipboard and GPSr prominently. I don't see this as a thread about homosexuality. It's not the same as being offered a piece of gum. Even if it is a person who would go away when told "no", it's not ok for me, to be asked. Anyway, I suppose if it is ok to have that happen to you, you can smile about it and say "no, thanks". Maybe it's not obvious I am a woman? Thought the icon would give it away. It is quite easy to smile in reply and say "No, thanks!" Of course, I tend to be very comfortable with myself and with my boundaries, and thus - except when I am having one of my grouchy, evil anti-social days - I really do not mind being propositioned by people (or by space aliens ), regardless of their gender.
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What it all boils down to for me is that people are just humans, even if they just propositioned me two minutes ago. In more than one case when propositioned by people of both sexes, once I had made clear that I was not interested in sex, we ended up getting into some very interesting conversations and had some fascinating dialogues. That kind of reply has always worked for me, regardless of the gender of the person who had propositioned me. Why suddenly get so huffy only when it is a male being propositioned? Is it okay when it happens to others but not when it happens to your own gender? Personally, I agree with Headybrew that if and when you are propositioned, all you need to do is make clear that you are not interested. Kacky, you may not like it, and you may wish to claim that it is illegal, but in our culture, women get propositioned all the time, and in all kinds of places, including by strangers. I have a right not to be propositioned by a stranger in the first place. If they don't then they are harassing you, regardless of their sexual orientation, and they should be nabbed by the cops for that. Once you have made that clear, then they probably will go away. Next time you can introduce yourself! DOH! Sorry.īut you also have a responsibility to make it clear to someone who is making sexual advances toward you, that you are not interested.
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You'd think by the time you're 30, you'd have all these things figured out. I thought it was odd, but it never crossed my mind that that was why he was there. I went into the woods hunting for a few hours, and when I came out, he was still sitting there. He wasn't doing anything, just sitting there. I wondered about the guy parked at the parking area deep in a nearby state forest all by himself midmorning on a weekday. Just curious if the backing into a space has something to do with the pickle alerts.?īacking into parking places in such areas is considered a sign that you are interested and available. Also I never back into a parking space.Ĭall me ignorant, but why is that? With my truck I frequently back into spaces, both in urban areas and rural, especially in crowded lots-it's easier to back in than back out. I'll add the pickle alert icon to my cache log to let anyone else know what to expect. Generally I mind my own business, find the cache, and move on.